Ok... I had to do this... after this whole situation has turned around I can now giggle and smile at this picture that was sent to me by Ashley!!!
When we asked Alex to fly out here to help us to roof the house it was a couple of weeks later that we found out he had never told Anny about it. So one day I get this email from Alex saying " I finally told Anny that I was coming out to grandpa/grandma/s house and this is what happened"... I clicked the attachment and here was the picture he sent to us...